I just want to thank Sara because that coaching session did more for me in 45 minutes than most of a long era of psychotherapy. You cut through everything and went right for the jugular. No one has ever called me out for having a bit of a victim mentality and that is the very thing I needed. As long as no one ever called me on it, I could pretend it wasn’t real, but I think on some level I always knew it was there. I’m a big survivor and I’m very self-sufficient and if anything, I try not to get help from other people and do things on my own, but that’s arguably part of the victim mentality right there. There’s a lot of reasons for how I ended up a person who has that toxic pattern that have to do with trauma but that’s irrelevant now. Those were patterns I developed to survive in certain situations in my life but those situations are over and because of that, that pattern of behaviour is actually sabotaging me right now and will continue to do so if I don’t get rid of it. I cannot thank you enough for being that intuitive that you saw through everything and pinpointed something I’ve been carrying around for over a decade. You have made it impossible for me to ignore it now and that’s going to be a core life change for me.